Friday, March 14, 2014

Homeschooling Option??

So lately, I have been thinking about homeschooling my son. I have been going back and forth between this conflict and I can't seem to find a reason to put my child in the public school system!!! I have encountered many home schooled people in my college career and they all seem normal and very sociable. That is the one thing I was concerned about when I was first thinking of this. 

Recently I have been seeing and hearing on the news that children are taking heroine packets to their preschool and taking marijuana candies to class and getting high. WHY WOULD I WANT MY CHILD AROUND THAT!!??? I don't. It seems almost impossible to avoid those issues if you put your child in the public school system. Yes, this does mean I want to shelter my child from heroine packets showing up on his desk. Does that make me a bad mom? HECK NO! I'm going to teach about all these things but I don't want my child to be approached with that awful drug and being asked if he wants to have some. Is my child actually safe going to public school? I dont think so. We hear about kids bringing guns to school all the time and that makes me nervous. My child shouldn't have to have a short life because some other child decided to be selfish and stupid. 

What if my child learns at a different pace then the rest of the kids in his class? What if he excels or is a slow learner? He will be punished for not conforming to the norm and be held back and feel embarrassed. Why would I want my child to go through that? Yes, normal schooling gives children an opportunity to socialize and become what society wants them to be. But if I put my child in extracurricular activities, they are getting socialized. I want them to focus on school and not the cute girl sitting next to him. 

Clearly, we can all see my point of view here. The more I write about this, the more I know my decision to homeschool is better for my children and myself. We will see what the future holds for us!!

 I do however want to know your thoughts on this matter!  :) 

Saturday, February 8, 2014

Young Mom's

Okay all..I have been very annoyed recently with young moms and how they are portraying themselves on Social Media outlets. I am a young mom (heck I'm only 20) with a 2 year old son and I cannot imagine my life without him or my husband. I couldn't see my life going anywhere until I found out I was expecting and my husband asked me to marry him! I turned my life around FOR MY CHILD'S SAKE!

I see mom's around the same age as me, going out and drinking WAY to much then they need to be, smoking marijuana with their friends, and being completely selfish. I'm sorry to be blunt but what you are doing is SELFISH! I'm not saying don't go out and have some time to yourself (because every mom should have that time!) But I am saying, be responsible. If you are out drinking and you decide that you want to drive home and you get in an accident and die..who is there to take care of your child? Who is going to be there for your child when they graduate high school or college or get married? It's not going to be you. Because you decided to be completely selfish and put your needs before your childs.

You decided to bring a child into this world. You decided to take a difficult road. You decided to carry a diaper bag instead of a Coach purse. Don't complain about how awful your life is with your child because eventually they will feel your resentment towards them and they will start to resent you. I gave up my social life to take on this incredible blessing of a NEW and IMPROVED life!! And I couldn't be happier!! :)

I usually don't rant...but this is something I feel strongly about!! :)

I would love comments!! ::) <3

Until Next Time... :)
Much Love